Holi
Holi is the festival of colors. The color of harmony that one sees in a community coming together to celebrate a festival from another culture. The color of resilient Mother Nature that brings us blooms and blossoms in the Spring. The color of fun and frolic as various ages, social stature and stages of life come together and spend a Sunday morning together.
My favorite festival for always has been Holi. I was told various mythological tales by my grandmothers. And the idea of fire getting rid of the evil and color being used to celebrate the victory of the good was made very clear every year as the festival approached.
On the first night of Holi - known as Holika Dahan, we got together as a community and lit a bonfire. The idea of community was instilled early on as us neighborhood children went from house to house and gathered fruits and sugar crystals to offer to everyone that came to the bonfire later in the evening. We helped build the bonfire, all gathering a few sticks and dried branches here and there to make one large fire.
The next morning was community color play. My brother and me joined forces to make as many water balloons as we could. The only day of the year that we woke up without the Mommy alarm and didn’t argue about inane stuff with each other. The color and water fights began between the children and then the adults joined in. There was no barrier of age. Everyone was fair game to be splattered with water and colors.
I realize now that the excitement for me was as much about getting messy as it was about the feeling of being part of something bigger. Being part of a community. The Holi festival started by Culture Box in collaboration with the Decatur Public Library has become one such event. We celebrate Holi — the festival of colors with our local community in Decatur, Ga and it provides that feeling of belonging. We started with 50 people which turned out to be 650 in 3 years. It has become something everyone looks forward to. There is colors, music, food (mostly thandai and snacks ). There are no strangers and no hard feelings. Everyone is open to getting colored and coloring others. Bystanders often stand and watch but end up joining the group. Hopefully everyone that attends gets the same sense. That of community. Of coming together and having a good time while being supportive of each other. The colorful happy faces and the memorable photos are just the cherry on top. Or the saffron threads in the “thandai”.